You are capable.
You are special.
You can do it.
It's possible in your time!
I have seen myself enchanting these words on those nights that I felt weak and disappointed. As you aim for something in life you may encounter multiple painful situations. Situations that may stop you from becoming who you can truly become.
I can feel you.
I can hear you saying these...
1. Life is tough.
Yes, it is!
Life is a tough environment and the only way to survive and ensure winning is to develop your mental strength aside from your physical being.
That you don't release the champion in you by becoming wary. The birth of any success in life happens after you overcome and pass the mountains in your life.
2. But this is me.
Yes, that is you.
The choices you make will define the type of life you will live and the level of difficulty you are capable of handling.
You are maybe living with the ghost from your past.
That ghost that is convincing you to limit yourself, to never try anything at all because that is who you are or to just live a simple life after having so much hurts in your past.
I respect you for being who you are. But before you finally settle with that thought of "who you are," can you ask yourself this question - "When was the last time that you felt proud of yourself?" Not being boastful but just proud of living the life of your own definition.
Can I add more?
"Are you really happy with who you are now?"
"Is that all?"
"If you would have to look back years from now, will you laugh at yourself? Will you still love yourself? Will you say it's a life worth living?
I love you for being who you are. I have no right no judge you!
You are not lost. But have you identified personal direction? And no one is more capable of deciding, designing, working and living it but you.
You are not weak. You have just not found and developed your true strength yet.
3. But I am not born to win.
You are born to survive and so thus winning.
It's in your genetic makeup.
It took countless of competitions, countless of wars, countless of harsh conditions, and countless of years to bring us all here - that itself is a proof that we are designed to win and life deserves no quitting.
Those who came before us made it for us, can you make it for those that depend on you?
4. I have no other option but to quit.
In trying to get your desired results in life. It is not always to see is to believe but the opposite.
You must believe in the fruition of what you are planting before you see the fruit.
You must plant the seed before you grow the plant.
Your vision in life is like a seed.
You need to plant it, to nourish it and to give it the environment desirable for it to grow. Surround yourself with the right people, they are part of the environment. People who can push you up not pull you down and your emotional state - never can you have a positive life with a negative emotion.
To win when you feel like quitting, you need to reshape the mental excuses and conditioning you are telling yourself.
That what you tell yourself and work consistently become your reality.
And whatever challenges are trying to stop you now, that is just part life and it's temporary.
The best way to win is to persist!
You choose the way, you own the path, it's in your hand.